If you know your husband is cheating, AND you know who his other woman is, SHOULD YOU confront the other woman?
On the surface, I would say NO, definitely not.
There could be more to lose, than what there is to gain in that situation.
You should review the strength of your evidence and talk to your attorney about this specifically, before you make any attempt to contact the other woman.
Most importantly, once you confront her, she may tell you husband, putting him and her on the defensive.
A cheater once caught will usually try to play the victim, not only with you, but also with your friends and family. If your cheating husband can convince your friends or family that you were in the wrong – neglecting his needs or whatever excuse he might use – then your friends or family could side against you in the divorce process. So, you should never tip your hand, before your attorney is ready for you to do so.
You are a woman, and you have friends who are women, so you know that what I am getting ready to tell you is true. Some women relish the role of the other woman. While it is true that most women would be offended to know the truth and will stand by your side in the courtroom to testify as to your husband’s cheating ways, you should never count on her to be the kind who will be as upset as you are about your husbands’ philandering ways.
If your evidence is strong and it will hold up in a court of law, then you don’t need her help to expose your husband. But if your evidence is weak, the other woman might prevent you from getting the evidence you need to convince the judge that your husband is a cheating spouse.
You should protect your own interests at all times, especially if you are pursuing a divorce. And confronting the other woman or other women could create more problems than it solves.
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If you are still seeking evidence of your husband’s cheating ways, consider the following resources:
- The book, How To Catch A Cheating Spouse, is written by professional investigators and teaches sure-fire ways to catch a cheating spouse, and how to document it properly for use in the court room.
- There are Private Investigators, who specialize in finding evidence of cheating on the Internet. You can hire these specialized Private Investigators to search for evidence of your spouse on online dating sites, chat rooms, and in personal’s advertisements.
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